Getting your kids to read this summer Comments Off on Getting your kids to read this summer 64208

Summer means different things for different people. For twenty-year-old’s, it’s the time to work and party; for parents, it’s the time to hold neighborhood events and start saving up, and for kids, it’s the time to kick back and finally have some fun. School’s out! 😃 It’s that one time of the year when they can go to the beach and hang out with all their friends without worrying about some project or homework. For them, the entire summer is all about having fun, and as a parent, it’s your sacred duty to balance fun with continuing education. You might even be able to replace “fun” with something more rewarding – like reading!

Knowledge attained outside the classroom tends to stick around longer

You don’t want to be the “uncool” parent that forces your kid to do something school-related during the summer, but you don’t really have that much of choice, here’s why. The lessons that really stick with you long after you finish school are the ones that you learned when you didn’t really have to.

The knowledge that is acquired without some form of ultimatum or consequence always leaves a lasting impression. It also introduces you to a new side of knowledge that is not purely scholarly.

Reading is right for you regardless of what it is that you decide to read – obviously you will have to control your kids’ intake in your spare time. Reading strengthens the mind, and continual learning increases the speed at which you assimilate and process information. Just imagine the kind of impact a fantastic reading speed could have on your kid educational future. You could be adequately preparing them for a future in academia.

Exposure

The reward of “ruining” their obsessively fun summer will be some exposure to other subjects and topics that are unfamiliar to them. Recreational reading could be very instrumental in building up their overall personality. Plus, proper exposure ensures that they have enough information to make smarter and more informed decisions at a tender age.

It can teach them to research and ask questions

Summer reading could form the basis of a voracious reading habit that could beautifully complement their curiosity. It’s not every kid that thinks about something strange that eventually go on to investigate, summer reading could introduce them to the concept of research.

How to get your kids to read during the summer

It’s easy to talk about getting your kids to read during the summer, getting them to do it another issue entirely.

Kids can be especially stubborn or pigheaded when you are trying to force them to do what they simply have no interest in. The only way to have them do what you want the right way is to either introduce a reward system or trick them that it’s all their idea. Local library’s often offer summer reading lists per age group.

Reward system

Are you having a hard time getting your kid to do anything you want? Wait patiently, there is always something they’ll want, and you can use that to get what you want – in this case, it’s a healthy reading habit.

When they come to you with a ridiculous demand, you can propose a fair trade that will engage their mind and keep it focused on a book that you’ll recommend. You can even choose to deliver the reward after the completion of several books, that way, you are getting the most out of your deal.

You can also choose to limit or restrict play time, and the completion of a certain number of pages could be the requirement they must fulfill before they are allowed to play again.

Making them think it’s their idea

In my experience, people are always more motivated to complete a project that they believe to be totally theirs. When it’s your plan, you just tend to pay more attention to it, it’s like you want to prove something to yourself and others around you. Adults think this way, and so do kids. They can be pretty devoted to completing a book they just accidentally stumbled upon or saw you flip through.

Sometimes you don’t have to be so obvious or aggressive, you could give a rousing speech about reading and hand them a book that you know that they’ll enjoy and leave the rest to them.

The summertime doesn’t have to all about vacations and parties, it could also be an opportunity for your kid to develop a reasonably analytical mind.

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Should I hire a personal trainer? Comments Off on Should I hire a personal trainer? 38204

That is a great question; one that has no clear answer. I guess to answer this question, you need to ask yourself a couple of questions and the first is: Do I actually need a personal trainer?

This question logically precedes the original question because it’s important to establish just how important exercise is to you. There is no reason to hire a personal trainer and pay him/her a lot of money if you don’t feel that you are dedicated enough to fitness as a whole. However, if it’s important to you, then by all means we can proceed to the next question.

Am I satisfied with my results?

Since it’s crystal clear that you are dedicated to the whole exercising thing, then you need to proceed to the next question which is far more important than the first. The second question is more important because it accesses your footing and your desire to grow and help you determine if hiring someone to guide you is the next step in your fitness journey. When working out we all see gains. Regardless of what you are into, it’s always present. It’s one of the general perks of sticking to a workout routine. And usually they come either quickly or slowly depending on how hard and well we workout.

You need to ask yourself how satisfied you are with your current rate of gains and improvements. Are the gains coming fast enough? If they are not then you might want to consider hiring a personal trainer to help you get those gains much faster. Most people just hop on the personal trainer train right off the bat. Most of them don’t see what they could really accomplish by themselves before bringing someone into it.

This is risky because it not only robs of you of your money, it also robs you of the opportunity of discovering just how good or bad you are at a given field before you have someone help you. Hiring a personal trainer if you aren’t satisfied with your current gains is a great idea. He/she can help you by showing you some tricks of the trade and improving your technique.

At this point, I would definitely say that it’s a great idea to hire a personal trainer. But if you are tight on cash and it’s not a do or die thing, you can always find out if this slow growth or gains is something you can fix or speed up yourself.

Can I fix it?

A reduction or overall halt in gains can be brought about by two factors. The first is physical, as in improper form, intensity, etc. The other is mental. Both factors are incredibly tricky and difficult to overcome alone. Even if you had the help of a personal trainer, it’s still going to be quite a challenge to overcome a plateau. This question cross-examines your ability to deal with your problems personally. Are you strong enough to overcome your plateaus or do you need some professional help? If you need help then a personal trainer is what you really need.

It’s ok to get a personal trainer of you really need it.

The decision to get a personal trainer isn’t particularly an easy one – or cheap one. If you are confident that you can push yourself to the next level, I see no reason to get a personal trainer but if you aren’t in intermediate need and just need a little push, then you can be in the beginner’s section and just need someone to show you the ropes of a fascinating and dangerous new world. In this case, research might not be enough, you might choose to hold onto a personal trainer for a couple of months until you break the whole “working out thing” down and get accustomed to everything that comes along with it.

To speed things up.

You could also be an intermediate athlete or an expert and you feel like you might need the personal touch of a professional to speed up your gains because you might be preparing for something big or important. In instances like these it’s great to hire a personal trainer. Nobody observes and sees your excesses like an outside party. Supervision to maximize gains is never a bad thing.

Save money with these three tips Comments Off on Save money with these three tips 73834

There are a lot of things that are infinite – the universe, the human imagination, love, etc.; one of the few things that isn’t infinite though is money. Yes, money. Like most things in this planet, money is not infinite. Like our health, we have to plan how we use it or we inevitably run out. We don’t need to tell you that money might just be the most important currency on the planet. Here are a few tips to help you manage yours better.

Plan budget

Most people live off salaries. It’s not some big shame or some evidence that you belong to the middle class, it’s just the way things are – meaning some have more money than others. And so, when your salary comes in, the smart thing to do is budget said salary to make sure you don’t run through it before the month is over. When people hear the word “budget,” they think only people who don’t make enough do that, “or it’s just for married people.” It’s not. In fact, budgeting is a sign of thoughtful financial planning. Budgets are designed to help you curb your more impulsive spending habits and they can help you set aside a significant sum of money for a plan you might have in the not-so-distant future. Perhaps you want to move out of your apartment and rent somewhere better, surprise your kid with the car of her dreams, or simply plan for retirement. There is no limit to why you need extra money; bottom-line is saving is good and it’s achievable with a sound budget plan. When making your budget plan here are a couple of things you need to know:

  • How much you spend: This is important because you want to know what a typical month of unplanned spending costs before you budget to prevent it. It would help to retrace your steps and gather your receipts, credit card bills, and bank statements to help outline your past spending habits.
  • How much you make: It might shock you to know that the amount that was promised when you took your job isn’t the amount that is in your bank account at the end of every month. 🤔 In fact, it’s usually quite a bit less. You need to get a bank statement and look at your salary after all the deductibles have been removed, that understand the real amount you make. While you’re at it, you might want to add all external sources of income like dividends, side projects, and other minor sources.
  • How much you save: There is always a purpose to every cent saved away. Once you have determined yours, you are ready to plan your budget.

Your budget plan should typically entail certain amounts sets aside for specific fixed and expected expenses. After all fixed and expected expenses have been addressed, the remaining amount should be deposited into a savings account to restrict access to it and limit your tendency to spend it when you should be saving it for the future.

Seek balance

Having quantity over quality is never a good compromise, but sometimes things don’t have to be so black and white. If you are looking to save, then you need to embrace a grey area. Sometimes to shave certain amounts off your monthly expenses, you should consider looking for a cheaper version of a product that you are used to. For example, instead of opting for farm fresh milk, you could look for a cheaper farm fresh milk that is not as expensive. Saving more money doesn’t have to include unimaginable budget cuts. Sometimes looking for a cheaper product that does the same thing is not a bad idea.

Limit spending

This part is probably the hardest yet most obvious way to save money; that is why we saved it for last. Cutting back on your spending can be terrifying and hard, but it doesn’t have to be. It can be a way to get rid of some of the unhealthy and life-threatening habits that might be ruining your life. Obviously, some habits are not as deadly as we make them out to be, but they might as well be.

When you are trying to cut down on spending, you should consider not eating out so much. These little dinners and lunches at your local restaurant could not only be unhealthy, they could constitute a bulk of your expenses. Reducing the frequency from say 10 times per month to a modest 2-3 times per month, could save you a lot of money. Other unhealthy habits you could cut down on too are; smoking, ordering food, unused gym memberships, etc.

Saving more money can sometimes be a sensitive subject that most people avoid because they have so little control of their finances. However, it doesn’t have to be such a trying and an emotionally testing subject. Budgeting, cutting down your expenses, and compromise can give you that much-needed control over your money.

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